A husband is a gift from God :)
“Diperlihatkan neraka kepadaku. Ternyata majoriti penghuninya adalah para wanita yang kufur .” Ada yang bertanya kepada beliau: “Apakah para wanita itu kufur kepada Allah?” Beliau menjawab: “(Tidak, melainkan) mereka kufur kepada suami dan mengkufuri kebaikan (suami). Seandainya engkau berbuat baik kepada salah seorang dari mereka satu masa, kemudian suatu saat ia melihat darimu ada sesuatu (yang tidak berkenan di hatinya) niscaya ia akan berkata: Aku sama sekali belum pernah melihat kebaikan darimu.”
(HR. Al-Bukhari no. 29 dan Muslim no. 907)
Some women have this tendency to spot their husbands' weaknesses. They love to nag and complain. It is sort of a syndrome spreading among them. Complain kepada suami sendiri tu satu hal lah. Ada juga orang yang akan cerita segala masalah rumahtangga kepada semua orang. That's not good. Let us muhasabah diri. Are we one of them?
If you feel bad about something that your husband did, it is OK to discuss in a good way on whatever that you both disagree on (a difficult thing to do during crisis). But it is not OK to deny all the kindness that our husbands had been doing for us. It is not OK. Some women have this habit of forgetting their husbands' sacrifices. Especially when they are mad. Are we one of them? Astaghfirullah.
I once heard on the radio, a caller was telling Prof Muhaya that her husband was having an affair with a third person. And Prof Muhaya asked the caller to ask herself, "Kenapa sampai suami perlu cari ketenangan di luar.Apa yang kurang pada layanan puan pada suami puan?"
Being a married person, we should always improve ourselves in dealing with the husbands.
Be kind, be gentle, be romantic, be loving, be lovable, be tolerant. BE LIVELY :)
Be kind, be gentle, be romantic, be loving, be lovable, be tolerant. BE LIVELY :)
A husband is a gift from Allah and we must take care of the gift. Be pleasant to him because Allah wants us to please our life partner.
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| Hubby and papa :) The two most important men in my life... |
Wallahua'lam
10 comments:
uhuk uhuk! terbatuk la pulak :P
you're not just a gift but the greatest gift from God :)
Salam alaiki ukhti,
True indeed. Ana don't deny.
However, we also have to acknowledge that there are times where it is not the wives' faults. For some cases, it is men themselves who do not know how to preserve their gaze nor guard their.. (or at least, they are not conscientious enough?)
WAllahua'lam.
Wslm,
Liana
Dear Liana :) yup, I also agree with u on that point. I bet you are referring to the part where I quoted about Prof Muhaya? InsyaAllah one day, I'll share my opinion on 'a wife is a gift from Allah' :) thanks for dropping by :)
Salam alaiki,
Hehe betul akak.. bhgian perucapan Prof Muhaya..
Ana look forward to that post. IAllah ana will be one of enti's new reader^_^
wslm
InsyaAllah...doakan akak istiqamah menulis dan membaiki diri. Same goes to u. Jzkk Liana :)
Just wondering - Ana as in Liana or Ana as in 'saya' in arabic? :)
salam ukhti,
ana as in saya in arabic.. ^^
Wa iyyaki ukhti~
anis,jzzk for reminding..
be lively!!!sgt btol!
ya allah..terkenangkan sgt byk benda yg x kena sbg wife..i dunno others..tapi diri ini merasakan perlu mujahadah yg amat kuat utk jadi isteri solehah..
and support drpd husband sgt penting..
umm muadz
waiyyaki mar :) perjuangan menguruskan rumahtangga tak pernah mudah. kena sentiasa belajar, sentiasa terbuka, sentiasa berkomunikasi...
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